The Daily Telegraph offers nine suggestions to improve your relationships in the New Year. |
英国《每日电讯报》为我们在新的一年里改善人际关系提供了9条建议。 |
1. Take time to work out your priorities. Decide who is most important to you and make sure they get the attention they need. |
1. 花点时间分出个轻重缓急。找出对你来说最重要的人或事,确保给予他们足够的关注。 |
2. Increase the amount of "face-to-face" time with your partner. |
2. 增加和别人面对面交谈的时间。 |
3. Limit your criticisms. |
3. 尽量少批评别人。 |
4. Practise being a good listener. |
4. 试着成为一个好的聆听者。 |
5. Take responsibility for your actions. |
5. 对自己的行为负责。 |
6. Be prepared to say "I'm sorry" and mean it. |
6. 时刻准备好说“对不起”,并且要真诚。 |
7. Show your appreciation. |
7. 不吝啬你的赞美。 |
8. Take the initiative. If you are single and want to go on a date, ask someone out. |
8. 采取主动。如果单身的你想要约会,那就邀请对方出来。 |
9. Let "no" mean "no". Too many relationships suffer because people cannot say "no" to their partners. Saying "no" more often could be this year's main resolution. |
9. 勇敢地说“不”。很多关系走入困境都是因为他们不会拒绝。多说一些“不”,可能就是你今年走出困境的法宝。
(China.org.cn) |
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